Why won’t the pros want to be friends with you?

When starting a business, networking is the number one productivity, recently we offered such a dating center, and I see that people are quite enthusiastic, but I want to pour some cold water on you, I personally feel that most people do not make real friends, for the following reasons.

1. do things three minutes hotness. The platform has just been on the shelves for a few days, you may be full of passion, every day, every post you also reply, but after a few days, you may lose interest, in fact, I think this is not the normal mentality of making friends, make friends must be put long line, in order to catch big fish, and the real big fish, generally will not directly float on the surface, but need their own heart to discover.

The most important thing is to make sure that you have the right tools to make the best use of your time and money.

2. blindly worship income. I found a very interesting phenomenon, as long as the self-proclaimed high income posts, will be very hot, there will be more than N people to actively add their QQ number, in fact, this is not good, there are two reasons: First, the real high hand, will not tell you his real income, because he does not want to be disturbed by some low-end entrepreneurs, dating platform many friends I know, high income in writing their own income, general It's about writing thousands, or writing negative numbers. Two, most of those who flaunt their income are trying to sell tutorials or training.

For junior entrepreneurs, don't blindly worship masters, and even the real masters, they are very busy, no time to take care of us, just as we have a crush on a star, we pay more, the other party will not be moved, more will not take care of us, so when choosing friends, we must choose and their level of equivalent, and do not go to the unrealistic choice of dating objects, meaning not much, a waste of time, but also easy to be cheated. 3.

3. habitual solicitation. Why are masters so afraid of junior entrepreneurs? Because a lot of people add someone's QQ, the first thing they ask is, is there a project to do? Do you want an apprentice? Directly scared of the other side of the blacklist, because he can not serve you, dare not take care of you, the more take care of the more trouble, because you are used to asking, why did not you think to invite people to dinner ah, did not think to give people a small gift it?

I used to have the same mentality, but then more people came to me, and I have slowly rethought some of my past actions, which were actually wrong, because people are not obliged to help us, and they are not indifferent, on the contrary, the more expert the more enthusiastic, but they will not be enthusiastic to strangers.

4. cast a wide net. We may be next to add all the people all over again, each person said a sentence, hoping that through this way to filter to suitable friends, in fact I tell you, you this line of thinking itself is wrong, because you are not serious to anyone, to no one, naturally others will not be attentive to you, all the people are your passers-by, you are also everyone's passers-by, you a friend can not interact. It seems like you've added a lot of friends.

The most important thing you can do is to make sure that you're getting the most out of your time and money, and that you're getting the most out of it. Have you ever seen an entrepreneur who spends all his time on QQ?

6. not maintaining friend resources. Friend resources need to be maintained, can't make new friends, forget about old friends, I'm all about friends to a table, and then start contacting from the last one, every day to a friend on the phone, make sure to communicate with all the friends worth talking to on the phone once a month, of course friends are also a dynamic balance, some people to be eliminated, some people to come in, New Year's Eve, write letters to friends. Sending greeting cards, in fact, friends and dating are the same, if you don't connect for a long time, you don't have a relationship and need regular maintenance.

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